Friday, April 18, 2008

SENSITIVE ISSUES

Most agree including myself that this is a free blog where u can put in anything that comes into your mind BUT I must remind that there are some sensitive issues that must not be done just like I told my daughter Pam. I won't scold her in her blog and create a scene like some people. Behind closed doors, we can scold/shout/scream at each other but in our open blog, I see no reason why we should mislead other bloggers cos we are not detailed in what we write.
And thus it is not fair for the other bloggers to post any comments base on just one side story. When and if I want to write a post, surely I would write all the flowery and best things that I have done. Who would tell what has been swept under the carpets. As a matter of fact, it is the family members or the people involved who is clear about the whole picture. Some people tends to elaborates a great deal in what they do for people but some choose to stay quiet about it (until maybe cannot tahan la). But when that happens, which I call the no turning point then things will turns sour especially when half the world knows but........................... half the story.
That is why I said, always leave some room for amendments. Yes I too will get very pissed off if someone tries to bully my family esp. parents but then, when we react, we must think of the consequences. First we do not bark blindly cos too many people will be hurt in the process. Aim at the target and bark or bite. Sad to say, there are some people who are just too stubborn and won't listen. Trouble is when they think they are wrong, nobody is right. And when they think they are right, everybody is wrong.
I still can't believe that one silly post can cause or stir up such an unfriendly situation or is it the comments from other bloggers which adds salt and pepper to the wound??????????? This is something all the bloggers need to think about as and when you post comments on other blogs. Please do not touch on sensitive issues.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Aisayman! long time no visit here. I miss something izzit?

Penny said...

Hi,
How r u? Ya think u just did. But no worry, it is not important. I don't write often, but do pop by sometime. Hope to see u again soon.