WHAT DO U CALL THIS???

I was asked to leave the company when I wrote to my boss for an increment after working with him for 9 years. Earlier there was a decrement and thanks to my immediate boss who recomendded my increment back to where I started just before he left the company.



When he asked me to leave somewhere in December, he said that he will give me enough time to look for another job and will compensate me 3 months salary. Then just before chinese new year, he gave me a cheque and told me that it was my bonus and I said a big TQ.

Comes March before he went in for his heart operation, he gave me a letter which states that he is giving me the 3 months salary he mentioned and one month of which I have taken in advance during chinese new year.

This really shocked me as much as it upsets me. In the first place, I did not asked for any advance pay so why should he consider that as an advanced payment?????

I suppose that might have caused the heart attack which I supposedly have without realising it which was confirmed by my heart doc. Oh yes! if I had died then, I would take it to grave with me. Can anyone tell me any reason why I shouldn't??

Each time I think of it, I get very very upset cos I feel so cheated.
Well, you can't blame me for hoping that the same thing will happen to the person who does this to me cos the world is round and EVERYBODY has ups and downs in one's life.

HALO

Hi! Been silent for a while because I just did not think of any interesting to say.

Went back to work in a totally new enviroment. Must say that it is an eye opener for me. Did not realise that there are so many things to learn in that industry. Been there a month and sad to say that I still have not learnt 5% of the trade. I must thank my guru though. She has been very helpful cos my boss is not in most of the time. Thank you - Angeline.

Was not well recently and got myself worried sick thinking it is my heart which causes me to have difficulty in breathing. So I had to make an emergency appointment to consult my doc. He checked and finally found that it was the new medication that I took for balancing my hormornes. So he gave me something else to ease it. Phew!! I thought another angioplasty.

Another sad news. My uncle (late ah yee's husband) passed away on 28.6.07. If I had been a healthy baby, I would have been given to him for adoption. He adopted my half sister instead. He loved me as a daughter anyway cos I was a good girl since young. Ahem!! Ahem!!

I feel very sad for him cos he actually worked till he die. I believe many people goes through the same but then this uncle had a daughter who was married to quite a wealthy guy. She probably could not buy him a bungalow or employ maid for him but I am sure that she can offer a trip to nearby countries when he was ok, or maybe help pay some of his medical bills. When I went back to see him some time ago, he actually cried when talking about her.

I may sound cruel or maybe cocky but I just cannot accept her. With her is just hello - goodbye. Nothing more nothing less.

Hard to believe there are such children. Pray that God will wake them before it is too late. Hope that whatever ill-feelings there is between parents and children - all will be forgotten after a good sleep.

First day at new job

After 2 solid months of rest after my surgery, have become kinda of lazy. Started worrying 2 weeks ago whether I can get up that early as I have been getting up at 9am, or whether my rusty brains can pick up the tasks.
Comes 30.5.07, told the whole world (my family - hehehe) that I have to sleep early so that I can get up in time to go to the new office which is a couple more miles from the old one. Aiya! lagi teruk, toss and turn the whole night cannot sleep. And when I finally got to sleep, the alarm clock and my handphone reminder rang.
Surprise the road was not that bad - of course it is school holidays now. Manage to reach the office at 8.08am. Hope the traffic flow can maintain like this all the time.
On the way home, I paid the toll and turn wrongly to the federal highway and join the jam again. How stupid. Grrrrr!!!!!!

Shocking/upsetting matter

I just learn this from a close friend Jenny about a week ago. It is a shock to me and find it upsetting or rather worrying too.

Another "friend" Hellen (wrong spelling intended) asked Jenny to take care of her mom who is 84 yrs old. The old lady has 4 kids. 3 sons and 1 daughter. Jenny asked for RM2K .....AGREED. Asked to let her continue her part time - 1/2 day 3 times a week ..... AGREED. So Jenny offered to fix the astro and air conditioner for the room. BUT Hellen rejected the offer. Strange as any daughter would want their mom to stay in a comfortable house.

All the children told Jenny not to bother them for little matters. Hellen stay in the same town but told her mom that she is working out-station.

Maybe the old lady is naggy or selfish but whatever it is, I think the children have no choice cos that is THEIR MOM and she is already 84.

This really makes me miss my mom. I get sort of jealous when she chose to stay with the eldest son and not me.

Anyway, Jenny did not agree to take care of their mom by the end of the day cos she was afraid the the old lady might not last long at her place.

WE - ladies n gentlemen - must learn from this and try not to be tooooo naggy when we get older. Not easy but try to be a friend to the children.